FAQs
What is Divorce Mediation?
Divorce mediation is a process where you and your spouse work with a neutral mediator to resolve issues like finances, property division, and parenting plans. Unlike going to court, mediation focuses on collaboration and finding solutions that work for your family.
How is divorce mediation different from hiring a divorce lawyer?
Litigation often leads to long, expensive, and stressful court battles. Mediation is faster, more cost-effective, and gives you both a say in the outcome. As your mediator, I do not represent either side but guide you toward fair agreements that can be filed with the court.
Is divorce mediation legally binding in New York?
Yes. Once you reach an agreement in mediation, it can be drafted into a legally binding settlement that is submitted to the court for approval.
Who should consider divorce mediation?
Mediation is ideal for couples who:
Want to avoid court battles and the cost associated with them
Are willing to communicate and compromise
Want to protect their children from conflict
Prefer a private and less stressful process.
How long does divorce mediation take?
The timeline varies depending on the complexity of your situation. Many couples reach an agreement in just a few sessions, while others may take a few months. Mediation is almost always faster than traditional divorce litigation.
How much does divorce mediation cost?
Mediation is significantly more affordable than litigation. Most couples complete their entire process through the Full Mediation Package ($3,500), which includes up to three 2-hour sessions, a written agreement, and guidance on next steps for filing.
For couples who are just beginning or want to address a few focused issues, I also offer a Peaceful Start Package ($995) to help you begin the process or work through specific topics.
At your consultation, I’ll explain which package best fits your needs and provide a clear overview of costs — no surprises or hidden fees.
What if we can’t agree on everything in mediation?
Even if you don’t resolve every issue, mediation can still narrow down disagreements and reduce the time spent in court. Many couples find that once the hardest topics are settled, the rest becomes easier.
Can divorce mediation work if we don’t get along?
Yes. Many couples in mediation are not on good terms, but the process provides structure and guidance to keep discussions productive. As your mediator, I help keep communication respectful and focused on solutions.
Do I need a lawyer if I use a mediator?
A mediator is not the same as legal representation. Some clients choose to review their final agreement with a lawyer before filing, but mediation allows you to complete most of the process without going to court or hiring multiple attorneys.
What areas do you serve?
I provide divorce mediation for families across Long Island, including Suffolk County and Nassau County. Remote/virtual mediation sessions are also available for convenience and for families located elsewhere.
How do I get started with divorce mediation?
Simply contact my office to schedule a consultation. We’ll discuss your situation, explain the process, and answer any questions so you can move forward with confidence.